BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader

BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader – Bondage Tool for Dominance and Control

BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader from Chambers of Love is an exclusive bondage tool for those who want to explore more control, presence, and intensity in their play. This spreader combines stable construction with thoughtful comfort, delivering a powerful sense of dominance and submission. Inspired by the iconic aesthetic of the film Secretary, it opens up new ways to explore power, discipline, and erotic control.

The fixed cuffs hold the arms securely in position while the collar's movable design provides greater flexibility and a more fluid experience. The result is a bondage tool that feels robust, comfortable, and visually impressive. Padlocks are not included. We recommend using our BDSM Double Carabiner for quick and secure locking of both the collar and cuffs.

Order the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader from Chambers of Love today and experience elegant control – we deliver discreetly.

Why choose the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader from Chambers of Love?

Chambers of Love is Scandinavia's leading destination for BDSM, fetish, and premium sex toys. We select every product with care for quality, safety, and user experience.

• Discreet delivery – DHL Express to service points or parcel lockers
• Movable collar – provides flexibility and fluidity during use
• Fixed cuffs – secure and consistent positioning of the arms
• Robust construction – built to withstand intense sessions
• Exclusive design – iconic aesthetic with strong visual impact
• For beginners and experienced users – versatile tool for all levels
• Compatible with double carabiner – quick locking without padlocks
• Scandinavia's widest BDSM selection – complete with collars, cuffs, and whips

Usage – step by step

For the best experience and safety, always ensure the product is properly cleaned before use. Communicate clearly with your partner and establish a safety signal.

1. Clean the spreader before use – wipe with lukewarm water and mild soap, let air dry
2. Place the collar around the neck and adjust to the desired fit (minimum diameter 10 cm, maximum 15 cm)
3. Slide the arms through the cuffs and adjust to a secure but comfortable position (cuffs 3.5–8.5 cm in diameter)
4. Lock the cuffs and collar with the BDSM Double Carabiner – padlocks are not included, but our double carabiner provides quick and secure locking
5. Check the fit regularly during the session – the cuffs should be tight but not cause injury or affect blood circulation
6. After use: unlock, clean thoroughly, and store in a dry, cool place

Safety: Never use the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader without an agreed safety signal. Check the fit regularly during the session. In case of breathing difficulties, numbness, or discomfort, release immediately. Never tighten so hard that it negatively affects blood circulation or breathing. Never leave a bound person unattended.

Material and care

The BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader is crafted from high-quality, durable materials to withstand intense sessions while maintaining a luxurious feel. The robust construction combines stability with comfort for extended use.

• High-quality materials – durable and built for intensive use
• Movable collar – provides natural freedom of movement without compromising control
• Fixed cuffs – keep the arms stably positioned
• Smooth surface – reduces the risk of chafing and discomfort during longer sessions

Cleaning: Wipe all parts with lukewarm water and mild soap or toy cleaner. Avoid soaking leather or metal parts unnecessarily. Dry thoroughly after each use and store the product in a cool, dry place, preferably in a bag separate from other sex toys. Check regularly that all seams and metal fittings are intact.

Product information

Frequently asked questions about the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader

Q: What is a BDSM neck and arm spreader used for?

A: A BDSM neck and arm spreader is used to hold the arms in a fixed position behind the back or in front of the body while the collar creates extra control and visual dominance. The movable collar design provides greater flexibility compared to rigid models, making it more comfortable for longer sessions. It is ideal for roleplay, dominance games, and structured BDSM sessions.

Q: Is this bondage spreader suitable for beginners?

A: Yes, it suits both beginners and experienced users. For beginners, we recommend starting with shorter sessions and always having an agreed safeword. Measure your head and wrists before purchase to ensure the dimensions fit – the collar ranges from 10 cm to 15 cm in diameter and the cuffs from 3.5 cm to 8.5 cm.

Q: Is the collar fixed or movable?

A: The collar is movable in its construction, which provides increased flexibility and a more fluid feel during use. This distinguishes it from completely rigid models and makes it more comfortable during movement while maintaining visual and practical control.

Q: Do padlocks come with the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader?

A: No, padlocks are not included. Instead, we recommend using our BDSM Double Carabiner to quickly and securely lock both the collar and cuffs. The double carabiner is practical, reusable, and gives you full control over when and how you unlock – without a key or combination.

Q: Are the cuffs adjustable?

A: The cuffs have a fixed diameter ranging from 3.5 cm to 8.5 cm depending on how you position your wrists. They are not infinitely adjustable, but the generous size variation means they fit most adult users. Measure the circumference of your wrists in a behind-the-back position if you are unsure about the fit.

Q: How do I clean the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader?

A: Wipe all parts with lukewarm water and mild soap or toy cleaner. Avoid soaking leather or metal parts unnecessarily. Dry thoroughly after each use and store the product in a cool, dry place, preferably in a bag separate from other sex toys. Check regularly that all seams and metal fittings are intact.

Q: How discreet is delivery from Chambers of Love?

A: All deliveries from Chambers of Love are sent in neutral, opaque packaging without sender markings that reveal the contents. We use DHL Express and offer delivery to service points or parcel lockers. You can also collect your order at our store in Stockholm.

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Why shop BDSM gear at Chambers of Love?

Chambers of Love is Scandinavia's leading shop for BDSM, fetish, and premium sex toys. We carefully select every product in our range to ensure quality, safety, and maximum pleasure.

• Discreet delivery – DHL Express to service points or parcel lockers
• Physical store in Stockholm – visit us for personal guidance
• Scandinavia's widest BDSM selection – premium quality, carefully curated
• BDSM experts – we help you find the right gear for your needs

Experience elegant control and visual dominance with the BDSM Neck and Arm Spreader from Chambers of Love – your partner in deeper bondage.

Brand: Chambers of Love